Photo via Jamie Lee Curtis Taete. Yesterday, in a column called " Six sex and love lessons straight couples can learn from gay relationships ", esteemed sex column veteran Tracey Cox took her MailOnline readers tenderly by the hand to the Homosexual Zoo, to see what information could be gleaned from these rare, exotic and beautiful creatures.
Her Attenborough-level of understanding and insight is truly an inspiration to us all: On mutual masturbation: Even I feel like I learned something, and I am one of those flamboyantly masturbating gay men Cox is so eager to study.
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But, as the proud member of a nine-year fully homosexual coupling, I feel I can offer a slightly more justified perspective i. I have actually had gay sex with a gay man, loads of times on what flawless gay relationships can teach you straight people about how to go out with each other. So here they are.
One of the great joys of being a homosexual man is that you see cocks far different and varied from your own. Dicks are as varied as arms: When in a homosexual relationship you learn not to judge what you are presented with and just chow down on it, for are we not all beautiful examples of God's creatures? Do we not all ejaculate from roughly the same location?
Sorry to be the one that breaks the news, but in a gay relationship we get just as lazy as everyone else. After a certain amount of time together a Netflix marathon cuddled on the sofa with an excellent cup of tea is far more appealing than the cardio workout of getting your big gay freak on.
If the thought of fucking isn't enough to tire you out, the level of prep work then clean up sure as hell will: It gets everywhere. I was happy to believe him. We had a good life, a nice home.
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I wanted to save our marriage. We went to counselling. We made love.
G radually, I began to confide in others — my sisters, a close friend. F inally, 18 months ago, I spent a night wondering what was in the relationship for me. Some stay in a marriage like this for family, status, money, shared history. And there are plenty of sexless heterosexual relationships that carry on, too. But I was tired of being in the closet of a big lie.
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I found that hard to forgive. The next day, we agreed to split. Family and friends found it difficult to understand why I would choose to leave a nice man like Peter in my early 50s. I say we grew apart. The closeted man who comes out tends to be seen as the unalloyed victim these days, while the wives are collateral damage. But betrayal is still betrayal. I do feel he stole my adult life away. He could have told me before we got married that he felt he was bisexual and wanted an open marriage.
He could have told me when I found the postcard that he was gay and given me the chance to start again. I think we still love each other and talk of staying in close touch as friends. There is a lot of sadness for both of us.
Tinder and the Dawn of the “Dating Apocalypse”
The comparison to online shopping seems an apt one. Dating apps are the free-market economy come to sex. OkCupid soon adopted the function. Some, like Atlantic writer Hanna Rosin, see hookup culture as a boon: When there is a surplus of women, or a perceived surplus of women, the whole mating system tends to shift towards short-term dating.
Marriages become unstable. Divorces increase. Men are making that shift, and women are forced to go along with it in order to mate at all. Now hold on there a minute. We need to puzzle out why women have made more strides in the public arena than in the private arena.
The data underpinning a widely cited study claiming millennials have fewer sex partners than previous generations proves to be open to interpretation, incidentally. The study, published in May in the Archives of Sexual Behavior, became a talking point for its surprising conclusion that millennials are having sex with fewer people than Gen X-ers and baby-boomers at the same age. On a steamy night at Satsko, everyone is Tindering.
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Or OkCupiding, or Happning, or Hinging. The tables are filled with young women and men drinking sake and beer and intermittently checking their phones and swiping. At a table in the front, six young women have met up for an after-work drink. None of them are in relationships, they say. No one gets hurt—well, not on the surface. They tell me how, at their school, an adjunct instructor in philosophy, Kerry Cronin, teaches a freshman class in which an optional assignment is going out on an actual date. Oh my God, he just texted me! Do you think you would like to get choke-fucked, tied up, slapped, throat-fucked and cummed on?
I think we could have a wild afternoon together but I am happy just to share brunch with you. On another busy night at the same bar, at the same table in the front, three good-looking guys are having beers. They are John, Nick, and Brian, 26, 25, and 25; John is the marketing executive mentioned above, Nick works in the fitness industry, and Brian is an educator. When asked about their experience with dating apps, their assessment is quite different from the interns from Boston College.
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Nick, with his lumbersexual beard and hipster clothes, as if plucked from the wardrobe closet of Girls, is, physically speaking, a modern male ideal. She found out by looking at my phone—rookie mistake, not deleting everything. He holds up his phone, with its cracked screen, to show a Tinder conversation between him and a young woman who provided her number after he offered a series of emojis, including the ones for pizza and beer. Girls do the same, but they get judged.
I have a good time. Men in the age of dating apps can be very cavalier, women say. One would think that having access to these nifty machines their phones that can summon up an abundance of no-strings-attached sex would make them feel happy, even grateful, and so inspired to be polite. But, based on interviews with more than 50 young women in New York, Indiana, and Delaware, aged 19 to 29, the opposite seems to be the case.
Is it possible that now the potentially de-stabilizing trend women are having to contend with is the lack of respect they encounter from the men with whom they have sex?